Beware the stories we tell ourselves
Some days ago, I was reading a post on Quora about emigrating to Canada. The person who had posted an answer was saying that she shifted to Canada a few months ago "in order to give a better life for her 2 year old son" and went on to describe the immigration procedures and protocols. What caught my attention is the underlying justification behind her decision, which formed the basis for effecting an irreversible change in her life and that of her son. Of course, it is quite possible that the author and her son were subject to oppression, persecution and unspeakable horrors from her family and society back in India, and emigration was the only option. But then, it is also quite unlikely that someone who has fled persecution would be writing so openly, and make no references to their trauma as part of their decision. The more plausible explanation is that, it was her choice and preference to emigrate to another country in search of a better life. But something was pric...